Saturday, May 10, 2008

Mother's Day Thoughts




How grateful I am to be a mother and a grandmother. Because of all that is required of a mother of what society these days considers a "large" family, I feel that I have, and continue to often walk through the "refiners" fire. There have been those late nights attempting to get a new baby back to sleep and late nights waiting up for a teenager who has passed her curfew.....There have been late nights sitting up and laughing with the kids and their friends and late nights holding a child who had a bad dream or was afraid of the lightening. There have been late nights sitting next to a hospitalized child who was reeling from the effects of chemotherapy or recovery from leg surgery....and then those miracle days when the news would arrive that the follow up tests were clear, and the cancer was gone.
I have sat through our kids numerous performances, sporting events, talks, graduations - sometimes with a mother's nervous stomach and wanting them to do their best, so that they would feel good about what they accomplished.
I have sat with a daughter who had just learned the news that her first born would come in to this world with challenges, and not knowing the extent of the problem, I have watched that same daughter put her faith in the Lord, and put her fear behind her. I have seen her step out in faith to nurture that little one....and in time two more.
I am grateful to have shared and to continue to share these experience as a mother, and as a trusted friend to our children and grandchildren. I have, and continue to learn patience, sacrifice, endurance, faith, humor, and hope.
Some people may wonder why I chose this path instead of picking a notable career or traveling the world. I would choose no other way. Because I chose to be a mother, and was allowed this great blessing to be one, my life is filled with so much richness of the heart.
And on this mother's day, I wish to share how grateful I am for this opportunity and wonderful blessing.

8 comments:

Sarah Hull said...

Tears, tears and more tears. That was beautiful mom! You are such an awesome mother and I just hope and pray my kids will feel the same way about me as I feel about you. Happy Mother's day! I love you.

Olive-us said...

Nancy, I am typing through tears.....
That was so beautiful and such a testament to the inspirational mother and incredible person you are. I just love you, Nancy. I hope you have a wonderful, laughter filled Mother's Day!
- Shawna

April Perry said...

Nancy, that was BEAUTIFUL!!! Can I put it on my "Power of Moms" website tonight? I'm sending out our monthly email. I think everyone would love your perspective. If I don't hear from you, I'll give you a call!

-April Perry
April@powerofmoms.com

Unknown said...

I needed that! I love that your family handles difficult situations so well. Your family is so easy to be around and I know I need a dose of Sarah at least 2x a year to boost my spirits and ego. I believe Sarah is such an amazing person on her own but I know that she had to be taught some of her characteristics from an amazing mother.

Kellie said...

That was inspiring! I love hearing your perspective as a woman who has been through many phases of motherhood. Thank you for sharing that!

Hess Fam said...

Absolutely perfect! Thank you for sharing your beautiful thoughts. I was truly touched and inspired!

Betsy said...

I loved the comment about children staying out past her curfew... it made me chuckle. Nice to catch up with you.

Don N Beck said...

One of the most profound and beautifully I intimate expressions I've read. Thank you, Nancy, for sharing!